HOW TO BE A GOOD PARENT

Being a parent is the greatest gift of God. Parents are the best best caretakers of a child and every parent tries to give their very best to their children. The

love,affection, care and all the best possible things to nurture a child are given by their parents and in fact unconditionally. It's very true to say that this relationship is the best among all relations. Whether you are 50 or 55 years old, you are still a child in front of your parents and their love and affection for you will never be dimmed.Uncountable,sacrifices,unconditionally love,care are the specialities of every parent.Besides all,there is much more to be considered and let's try to think and understand with the following points. 

1. Always give your time (quality time) to your children. Wether they are infants,young or teenager, you should give your precious time to them from your busy schedule.

2. Always emphasize on teaching good manners and good habits to our children. Like in our daily routine as we wake up,give thanks to God,morning wish to elders,folding our beds or bed sheets,proper brush,bath,having breakfast properly. Moreover be nice with the maids and servants,be nice to the watchman and other assisting helpers in the society,giving respect to the teachers and be nice to their mates.

3. Always be a good human in front of your children. Parents are the best role model for their children,in fact children always follow the acts of their parents. Your all the good or bad deeds,your good or bad behaviour has a deep impact on your children which intends them to follow whatever you do.

4. Always be a good teacher or tutor for your children. Help them in their studies wether you are capable or not. 

A very interesting example i want to share with you about a non educated woman who teach her children daily,asking them to do their school homework in front of her. Just watching them doing homeworks and pretended that she is understanding 

everything. After so many years the children realized that their mother doesn't know anything about the study of her children lest she was so concerned about the studies of her children. 

Whatever help you can give,just give them atleast an hour asking them about the studies. Your half hour with your child is much more valuable than the six to seven hours in the school.

5. Always try to play with your child,whatever sport or game they love to do. Find out the interest of your child,which sport they love,which game they love to play. Besides the studies, indoor and outdoor games (specifically outdoor games ) are very essential for the good mind and good health of your children. Now a days,children are much addicted with mobile phones and playing games on TV or computers. No

physical activity remains in their lives. That's why most of the unwanted diseases appears like dizziness and depression has become very common in the youngsters. Encourage your children to take part in the physical activities in their schools or colleges,guide them with the very best knowledge you have related to the sports in which your child have the interest. Try to get the knowledge from outsource and give it to your children. Provide all the necessary things which are essential for the physical activities of your children. 

6. Always appreciate the achievements of your child and try to celebrate it. It's really motivational and makes your child more attentive to do much better in their upcoming assignments. Failure is obvious sometimes too,but please try to take positive stance and teach the children to take so. Tell your children to face the problems because this is the best way to solve them.

7. Always be punctual and disciplined in front of your children. More often teach them the value of time and to manage it. Setting schedule for the studies,for meals,for entertainment,sports and games,spending time with the grand parents and taking proper care of them. This punctuality and time management will be the milestone of the future of your children. 

8. Always help your children to take the decisions for themselves but make a vigillance on it. Too much restrictions is not good but ignoring and negligence is much worst as well. So,try to take the necessary steps that increases the wisdom of your child which helps them to take the decisions wisely. Teach them to learn more and more cognitive skills that helps them to be a good human and a wealth for the society.

9. Always teach and treat your children according to their abilities. Every child has a unique personality and a different kind of capability. Deal them accordingly and in polite manner. Never compare you children with the others and never make their mind to do such differentiation.

10. Always prepare your children to be consistent and devoted to any kind of activity they are doing in their daily life. Whether in their studies, in their sports, or in any other assigned work, a child should be very focused attentive, devoted and consistent. Such good habits become the everlasting routine exercise in their life.

11. Always be involved and try to be familiar with the teachers and friends of your child. Try oftentimes to communicate with them and be acknowledged about the acts,performances,behaviour and relationship of your child. If you find something wrong or unexpected, try to rectify it wisely taking immediate initiative. Both the self respect and the illicit behaviour should be very wisely taken care of. As ego and arrogance both are the travellers of same path.

12. Always be balanced with the children. Sometimes you have to make them understand something by acting like a friend but sometimes not. Treating the children like friends is not good for everytime as it makes them less humble and less respecting. Friendship means no boundaries,no etiquette,very formal and very casual. But these things will give harm too when a parent tries to be a friend of the child. So it's good only for some specific issues or occasions. 

13. Always prepare your children to fulfill their duties and take their responsibilities in their early age. Taking care of their uniform and dresses,their shoes,bags,yheir laundry, try to teach them about the prices of groceries and the daily commodities and how to buy them,proper usage of electricity and other things. In fact,try to teach them about the saving of resources too.

14. Always teach them and prepare them to make a healthy Body,Mind and Soul for themselves. If all the three things are fit,then there will be very less chances of getting failure in their life. There will be very less chances of distraction too.

The most important thing of being a good parent is to teach,aware and understand them about " what is good and what is bad to them ".

Hope this blogg is quite useful for the parents. I really appreciate the readers and request them to read more on this topic as the children are the future of our mankind. 

Thanks, 

Have a nice day...